We hear a lot about wedding day significance. About how it is the once in the lifetime moment. How important it is for your family and friends. Hearing all that we may get convinced that the wedding day is mostly about showing off. Almost like no matter what you believe in you shall spare no money and no effort to make the day perfect. With this post, we would like to question that.
With time passing, we are trying to be more and more aware that the wedding is not only an event forced by tradition and social expectations but most of all, it is a day of love celebration. The decision freely made, when we devote ourselves completely to our soulmate. So does the love celebration still supposed to be all throwing the biggest, the most fabulous reception ever? Not at all.
No matter who we are, we all want our wedding day to be one of the most memorable ones. That’s understandable. But maybe we can highlight it meaningfulness in other ways – by spending it in surrounded by the closest family and our real friends, dress in a modest elusive dress, with the flowers in our hair. A slow dinner, our favorite music record instead of a band and a lot of warm words and warm thoughts. But most of all – a perfect day when two of you, with your brand new husband, are so close and so happy, like never before. Without endless must have traditions which you do not like, worrying about your perfect hairdo and make-up.
That is probably how a bohemian, rustic, whimsical wedding trend is about. We are liberating ourselves from expectations and forced traditions. This is probably why this kind of wedding is more and more popular those days. And we totally get it. Having the love factor on the foreground. What more could you ask for?
We are not saying that this kind-of-modest, less splendorous wedding is an effortless one. Not at all. There is always some work and there is always some stress involved when you are hosting a bigger group of people and all eyes are turned on you. However, there is always a group of loved one beside you willing to help as well. So maybe ask your bridesmaids, your sisters, cousins and mother, or your wedding planner, to help you take all of this “how to be perfect” thinking out of your head so that you could enjoy the very special day as much as you can. Kick off the high heels, dozens of hairpins, long veil and corset and breathe freely.
Sounds a lot like your dream? If that is what you looking for – do not hesitate. A modest wedding can not only be the most beautiful and fashionable nowadays. It will give you a unique, exceptional, warm, loving memories of the big day. Cause whatever they say, it is only the two of you who will truly treasure the memory of this day and remember it for a lifetime.